How to Make Friends as an Adult
Posted on Jul 25, 2017
Making new friends sounds like fun, doesn’t it? Being children, we think less about the consequences or our status; we simply start being friends. However, what if you teen period is over and you perceive yourself as an adult with all those obligations and duties so generously laid on you? To be honest, with the years the process of making friends with other people is getting harder because we start to fear the rejection. It may seem extremely hard, but there are ways to make new friends painlessly as an adult.
- Enroll in night schools or courses. Most of those who have already started working don’t feel super enthusiastic about doing some other activity, but believe me, the best way to meet new people, who might luckily share the same interest, is by attending night school or various courses. This is not just a perfect possibility to learn new skills, but also a magical place to make new friends.
- Volunteer. What could be a better place to find like-minded if not volunteering projects about which you really care! If you are into nature, try environmental projects, where you can make a difference for the world and get to know people who have the same opinion, maybe even the same tastes and approach to life. Besides, volunteering assists in leaving the comfort zone and getting a new breath of life.
- Go to social events. Check what’s going on in the social life of your community. Various concerts, art exhibitions, charity events, donation gatherings are full of people, your “potential friends”. In the constant circulation of people, you may unwind, enjoy cultural events as well as make friends with some interesting people, as, let’s be honest, boring people do not usually attend mass gatherings.
- Address for the help to your little friends. If you are a lucky owner of pets, so rejoice, you can make new friends with their help. Don’t hesitate to talk to other owners while attending a dog park. Use your charming smile to start a conversation, make jokes, chit-chat and who knows, maybe soon not only you, but also your pet will have a new friend to meet and share news and gossips.
- Use Meet up. If none of the above-mentioned worked for you, cheer up, there is one more possibility of making friends. Meet up is about organizing various events for any taste and in different parts of the world. So, choose the event that corresponds to your taste and hit the road to meet your new friends.
And last, but not the least: don’t give up! Adult friendships do exist and the fact that it is harder to make them when you are older can only contribute to them, making your friendship more genuine and everlasting.